Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Help me, to help you, to help others.

Help me, to help you, to help others.

That was a phrase an old Sergeant of mine used to use tongue in check in regard to “touchy feely” artificial community oriented policing programs.

However, I sincerely feel a need to help.  Not only young men and women interested in entering the service of others, but future generations as a whole.

As big a deal as I am I can’t affect an entire generation single handed.

I need you to help me, to help others.

What do I mean by that?

Last blog I bemoaned the softness of the youth of America.  Since then I have come across a couple of articles that show I’m not the only one noticing this trend.
I have included a link and the text here:


Police departments across the country are struggling with staffing shortages as a result of a weak economy, hiring freezes, furloughs, layoffs, and cutbacks to salaries, benefits, and retirement incentives.
According to Police Chief Magazine, “Such difficulties spurred 7,272 applications to the Community Oriented Policing Services (COPS) Hiring Program, requesting $8.3 billion to support more than 39,000 sworn-officer positions. Altogether, both the supply of and demand for qualified officers are changing in a time of increasing attrition, expanding law enforcement responsibilities, and decreasing resources.” The problem is not new, either. The Anniston Star reported in December 2013:
Since the late 1990s the nation has seen a decrease in the number of people interested in becoming police officers. A 2006 article on police officer recruitment published in Police Chief Magazine said an estimated 80 percent of the nation's 17,000 law enforcement agencies had positions they could not fill. A separate report, Hiring and Keeping Police Officers, published in 2004 by the National Institute of Justice said 20 percent of agencies experienced officer weakness as a result of recruitment and fiscal problems.
One particular question being discussed by the National Tactical Officers Association (NTOA) at the annual National Shooting Sports Foundation’s SHOT Show in Las Vegas this year is how local law enforcement can recruit and retain quality individuals to their departments' SWAT teams. An NTOA seminar on this question was well attended by SWAT team officers from all over the country, from cities including Chicago, Santa Barbara, Washington D.C., and Palm Beach.
As baby-boomers in departments look toward retirement, issues surrounding differences among officers who grew up as Generation X-ers or Millennials appear to be surfacing. Veteran SWAT officers within the group of attendees say that too many new recruits look at SWAT as a “stepping stone” or “résumé builder” to other areas of law enforcement, so finding new recruits who are willing to stay on SWAT teams for the long haul is becoming more difficult.
“Instead of having 20 people staying there 20 years, you have people stay there five to seven years,” said Captain Ed Allen, NTOA Eastern Region Director and Instructor.
Additionally, new recruits are likely to be college graduates with a different mindset than their predecessors of 20 to 45 years ago. Attendees in the class gave their views on recruits in their early 20s who enter police departments with college degrees.
“What’s gone is police departments looking for the defenseman on the hockey team – the rough guy who can prepare to visit violence [on] a bad guy who would do us harm... [replaced by] the university graduate and all who comes with his entitled attitude,” said one officer.
Another claimed, “These new guys... come in that say, ‘I’m in here for just three to five years,’ and they check the box and they go on to do something else.”
“We got lawyers. We got Ph.Ds. We got everything but police officers. They can’t clear a corner. You tell them, 'Get out of the squad car and go clear the corner;' but they can recite to you a formula – you know, Starling’s law for cardiac help or something,” said one attendee.
He added, “But I think the worse thing we did was that we focused so much on law enforcement getting college degrees to move up that the type-A personalities out there in the streets kicking people’s asses and locking people up – well, they had to go to court. They didn’t have a lot of time to work on their master's.”
Allen reminded the class it was important for older officers to properly teach new recruits how they can improve on skill sets, discipline, and leadership as well as learn from recruits themselves, considering the technological skill set advantage young recruits have over their predecessors.
However, Allen does caution that some potential recruits may not have what it takes to break out of the stereotype of their generation and become law enforcement officers. Referencing the children of “helicopter parents,” Allen recounted a meeting he had with one young man.
“I got this kid who wants to be in law enforcement. He wants to go get his degree, but he wants to meet me first.” Allen continues, “So he comes to my office; and as he walks in the door, this shadow is right behind him – his mom. (the room laughs) He was about to get into the law profession. He’s a freshman in college and he wanted to come meet us – with his manager.”
Allen emphasized, however, that there are recruits who need to be told their weaknesses straight out but should also be reassured that others can work with them to eradicate such faults.
Daytona Beach law enforcement training specialist David Agata, who has more than 20 years of law enforcement background, agrees with the sentiment of the class attendees, telling Breitbart News that some new recruits in law enforcement today cannot even tell him why they want to be police officers.
Agata says that too many just “want to put the uniform on and work the street,” learning along the way. “And these kids say, 'Hey, why should I put a uniform on? I’m smart. I need to throttle back,'” he says.
“The challenge is we got a mindset that says, 'I don’t need to pay the price to get to where I need to go,' or they really don’t understand the job that they really have to do. Why? Because they haven’t done their homework,” Agata explains.
“Again, we have all this great technology, but I got a kid. He can probably text 250 words a minute, but can they write a report? Do they actually know what it is to educate? Can you tell me what your authority is? Can you tell me how to apply your authority? Can you tell me what levels of force would be applicable and proper while doing that? And then, what are we offering them?”
Other recruiting issues facing police departments are competition with the local fire departments, competition with nearby localities, and the privatization of law enforcement.


This next article, in my not so humble opinion is an example of the problem as opposed to a solution to it.


New demands changing the face of police hiring pools
Article by: SHANNON PRATHER , Star Tribune Updated: January 4, 2014 - 8:14 PM

More chiefs looking for four-year degrees, people skills and critical thinking.
Formerly in politics, Jackie Duchschere will soon put her bachelor’s degree and career skills to use with Columbia Heights Police.
Jackie Duchschere started her career in the unsparing world of politics after earning her bachelor’s degree. In her work at a state agency, her problem-solving and people skills were tested almost daily.

She’ll now plug those skills into her new job as a Columbia Heights police officer.

Being an officer these days is as much about brains as it is about brawn as more suburban police chiefs seek out job candidates with four-year degrees and previous professional experience, often in outside fields, including teaching, political science and corporate America.

Minnesota has long led the nation in peace officer standards; it’s the only state to require a two-year degree and licensing. Now, a four-year degree is becoming a more common standard for entry into departments including Columbia Heights, Edina and Burnsville. Many other departments require a four-year degree for promotion.

It’s not a rapid-fire change, but rather an evolution sped up by high unemployment that deepened the candidate pool and gave chiefs more choices. Officer pay and benefits can attract four-year candidates. Edina pays top-level officers $80,000; Columbia Heights pays nearly $75,000.

Nowadays, officers are expected to juggle a variety of tasks and that takes more education, chiefs said. Officers communicate with the public, solve problems, navigate different cultures, use computers, radios and other technology while on the move, and make split-second decisions about use of force with a variety of high-tech tools on their belt. And many of those decisions are recorded by squad car dashboard cameras, officer body cameras and even bystanders with smartphones.

Those higher community expectations and scrutiny are why Columbia Heights Police Chief Scott Nadeau said hiring officers with a four-year degree and some life experience is a top priority.

Still, there is healthy debate in law enforcement, with some chiefs favoring direct experience over pedigree.

Broad skills

Along with Duchschere, Nadeau recently hired a former schoolteacher with a master’s degree. He also has hired one officer who will finish his bachelor’s in business administration next year.

“Officers with education seem to do better with problem solving,” Nadeau said. “You need that breadth of knowledge. You need to know what is the difference between an immigrant and a refugee.”

That’s different from when Nadeau was hired, when chiefs literally sized candidates up, favoring those over 6 feet tall with broad shoulders.

In his inner-ring suburb of 20,000 made up of 16 percent foreign-born, officers are more likely to encounter a confused senior citizen than an armed gunman. During his career in Brooklyn Center and Columbia Heights, Nadeau says he has never had to discharge his gun, but he’s faced some rapid-fire questions from immigrant groups about racial profiling and from residents irked at efforts to stop jaywalking across Central Avenue.

The community problem-solving role for police warrants more education, Nadeau said.

“Officers need to fully understand the problem, provide a thoughtful analysis of alternatives, research best practices and assemble a plan that includes multiple stakeholders and leverages community resources to reduce or eliminate the problem,” he said.

A changing mold

Although her father is an Eden Prairie policeman, Jackie Duchschere says that for a long time “I just had the wrong idea of what you needed to be to be a police officer.” She is 5-foot-4 and describes herself as a bit of a “girlie” girl.

“Even though my dad isn’t this big macho guy, I was completely thinking about the physical aspects of it and I didn’t fit the mold.”

Duchschere, 26, has worked as a Columbia Heights community service officer part time to get her foot in the door. She starts her new job early this year pending background and health assessments.

“My biggest tool will be my ability to communicate with people — be smart and quick on my feet,” she said.

In Edina, Chief Jeff Long said, “We are not just hiring people who want to drive fast and make arrests. We are hiring people who want to get out in the community and participate. We really focus on candidates who have prior life experience coming in.”

Some of Long’s recent hires include two Target corporate employees and a YMCA executive. Many of these professionals are taking pay cuts to go into policing, he said.

Long, who will become Lakeville’s police chief this month, said that hiring practices started to change about a decade ago but that there’s been a big push in the last five years. It’s easy to be selective. His department had 400 applicants for their last job opening.

Broadening role

More education also coincides with greater expectations for police from residents and city officials. Two years ago, for example, Edina police started overseeing the city’s community health department, which handles pool inspections and hoarding investigations, Long said.

“That is the trend in law enforcement. People have that expectation that it’s not just cops showing up. It’s an entry into the social services arena,” Long said. “We want to do more social work when we are on the street. We call an advocacy agency every time we go in on a suspected domestic abuse case.”

Even conventional police work takes more education.

“You used to do a photo lineup, get the guy ID’d and you were done,” Long said. “Now you need DNA, a forensic trail, video and accounting.”

Burnsville Police started requiring a four-year degree in 1969. They relaxed the policy briefly in the late 1980s because of a thin candidate pool, but Chief Eric Gieseke said he firmly enforces it today.

“The community wants a professional agency and they expect us to be highly trained and highly educated,” Gieseke said. “The job has become more complex. You introduce technology. The laws are ever-changing and expectations in the community have not declined.”

Gieseke said larger urban departments, which hire more officers, may not have the luxury of considering only candidates with four-year degrees.

The Minnesota Board of Peace Officer Standards and Training, or POST Board, licenses officers. Its executive director, Neil Melton, said the board doesn’t track the number of officers with two-year versus four-year degrees but said the trend in some departments is to hire and promote officers with more education.

Debate about what’s needed

There is a back-and-forth in the law enforcement community about what qualifications predict a good officer. Maple Grove Police Chief David Jess said he values education but doesn’t require a four-year degree.

“I like to leave it open because there are plenty of people with two-year degrees that are good police officers,” he said.

Jess said he’s found experience to be a better indicator of success than education alone. He favors a candidate who has worked as a reserve officer or in a smaller department. He recalls once interviewing a highly educated candidate with no law enforcement experience who said his goal was to become the department’s forensic psychologist — a position that doesn’t exist.

“There was a total disconnect with the type of work we do,” Jess said.

Once in the door, many officers with two-year degrees utilize the city’s tuition assistance program to earn their bachelor’s degree.

The Ramsey County Sheriff’s Office, which provides police services for several north suburbs, requires only a two-year degree, but a four-year one gives candidates an edge, said spokesman Randy Gustafson.

“We are held to a higher public scrutiny level. You need people who are able to meet that public demand and the demands of technology,” Gustafson said.

Gustafson said today’s squad cars are like “driving a high-tech computer.”

He also noted that, for the first time this past year, the sheriff’s department put its new hires through 40 weeks of training and department shadowing.

“It’s a lot of money and you want to make certain you have a really good candidate who makes it through. … You can always teach specific competencies. You can’t teach character.”
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A thank you to Cody Larson for finding that article for me.  He is in that generation and seeking employment in Law Enforcement.  He more than anyone else reading this is directly effected by the challenges I'm describing.

So somehow a guy that failed at a career in retail has life experience that is worth more than someone who has always wanted to be a law enforcement officer and sought out the training and education to achieve that?

Ok enough of my bitching

Bemoaning the problem does nothing to solve it.

That same Sergeant that used to say help me, help you, to help others also used to say…
“Don’t come to me with a bitch, if you have a bitch come to me with a solution to it and we will see what we can do”

What would Batman do?



He would take a leap

LEAP is a leadership concept I learned back in the Fraternity days
Lead by
Example
And
Precept (a general rule intended to regulate behavior or thought.)

If I am going to bitch about the softness of American youth, I (we – all of you who take the time to read this) had better set an example of being a hard charger.





These guys clearly have no solutions and have no right to bitch about a problem they are part of.

So step one lead by example.  Oh, you want an example of well, leading by example.  Allow me to dislocate my shoulder patting myself on the back.

SWAT PT Test 2013
Sit ups 61
Push ups 45
Dips 25
Body Weight Squats 56
250 lbs Leg Press 30
1 mile run in armor 9:45

I took 2nd place overall

SWAT PT Test 2014
Sit ups 69
Push ups 50
Dips 33
Body Weight Squats 65
250 lbs Leg Press 47
1 mile run in armor 7:58

Ok, ok big fucking deal besides shameless bragging what is the point of mentioning this?

Sadly, even with all the improvement I took 2nd place again.  But to a different champion.

My efforts encouraged other to work hard.

Those results didn’t just happen.  They were the well, results (I should really buy a thesaurus) of consistently doing the “hard” things every day.

Sleeping in feels nice but not as nice as crushing my peers so I get up at 0400 to get my first work out of the day in.

The guys I work with see me doing this, my daughters (the youth of America) see me doing this.

Eating doughnuts for breakfast feels good, but not as good as crushing my peers so I mix some protein powder into some steal cut oats.

The guys I work with see me doing this, my daughters (the youth of America) see me doing this.
Then they see the results.  It isn’t being hard it is just being.  Physical culture is just culture.

A phrase I usually hate but makes my point is be the change you want to see.
Don’t preach.  Riding your friends, family, and co-workers to be more like you won’t work. 
Just be such an awesome you that those who know you would want to emulate you. 
If they ask for help in doing that, do whatever you can to positively encourage them

Step 1 lead by example
Challenge 1 – do the hard things every day that make you better at what you are passionate about.  Before bed ask yourself, what have I done today to be better than yesterday?  What have I done today to be the best there is at what I do

If the answer is nothing, change that tomorrow.

Step 2 Mentoring / Spread the message

This next chunk is going to be a brain dump of sorts for me.  Stuff that has been cooking in the noggin that I feel I have to get on paper.  Goals I am setting and action plans to achieve them.  It should also serve as personal accountability.  A few months down the road I (we) should be able to look back at this blog and have answers to the challenges and track my (our) progress.

Step 2 – Get ‘em young.
My daughters already embrace physical culture that is just life at our house.



How can I be a positive influence on more young people?

I’m not going to teach a kids class.  That is not my thing, and the subject matter that interests me most is not appropriate for most youth.

So I figure 16 years old is the youngest I want to teach
16-24 age demographic is in most need of the help I can offer.

How / where can I advertise my services?
From youngest to oldest.
  • Local (Near Dojo locations) High Schools
  • Local churches with youth groups
  • Local Police Explorer Programs
  • Local Tech Schools, Colleges, Universities that have Law Enforcement Programs
  • Military recruiters


Step 2 mentoring getting the word out to more people
Challenge 2 create a list of all the above mentioned locations.  Make contact with each.  Have professional advertising materials to leave with them.  Develop online distance learning programs for those who are interested but cannot travel to train with me.

Challenges to readers:
Hold me accountable, ask me about my progress.  I love winning, and I will not fail.  I never want to have to answer a challenge with negative results.  So help me walk the walk, please.

Reinventing the wheel.  If any of you reading this have done something similar, or have strategies for getting my foot in the door of those “youth markets” I mentioned please share what has worked for you.

Distance learning.  
Anyone reading this that is interested in a distance learning program for the violence dynamics semester training leave me a message in the comments.
Also, I have shared many of the hard things that I do every day here on this blog.  The last part of “the book”, the part that I am working on right now so I can finish it is the hard stuff.  Things you can do to have positive answers to the question – what did I do today to be better than I was yesterday?  So shameless plug buy the book when it comes out

Lastly, who have you influenced today?  Can you influence more?

Train hard, Train smart, Be Safe – Change the world (with your awesomeness)



Thursday, January 2, 2014

Outside the box thinking and addressing "softness"

Recently I was invited to a meeting of several Law Enforcement Defensive Tactics Instructors for a brain storming session.

A very cool opportunity.  I talk about this stuff with friends on the Internet.  I talk to my wife about it until she gives me that look that says please shut up I don’t care about any of this.  It is rare to have this conversation with local talent I can actually put my hands on.

The ball got rolling with the concept of catching up with fire arms training.  The days of standing still and target shooting at the range are gone.  Field experience has shown a need for training to change and progress has been made.

Movement, cover / concealment, reloads, many more “high speed” tactics have become common place.  Applicable skill sets have risen and officers are safer because of it.

What can we take from this and apply to defensive tactics?
Do we need to / can we change our thinking to how we approach teaching?
What should we be teaching?

With that the ball was tossed to me, “So Kasey not to put you on the spot or anything, but what do you think?”

And so started my diatribe which I will share to the best of my recollection with you here.

Those are heavily weighted topics / questions – where to start?
Yes we need to and can change our basic approach.
For all intents and purposes we are teaching basically the same things and in relatively the same manner as we did in the 60’s when it was a prerequisite to be a 6 ft. 200 lb. male to be a police officer.  One size fit all because all cops were pretty much the same size.

Also many recruits had seen active duty or at least had a military background.  Even those that didn’t grew up in a very different culture.  They were some how involved in physical culture. The overwhelming majority played contact sports, and all had been in fist fights growing up.  That was just part of life back then.  The socialization of young men in America… then.

Things are very different now.  I’m sure every generation thinks the generation after them is “softer” than them.  Softer than they were at that age.

Hell, last night I watched “Stripes” which came out in ’81 and that was the premise for the whole movie.

But now we are training people who have never played a sport or been in a scrap their entire lives.
I am seeing a huge amount of candidates failing field training because they lack an intrinsic quality, a virtue once ascribed to the idea we called manliness.  They lack the ability to step up and take charge when the time calls for it.

So now we have a world where all sizes shapes creeds and genders are training to be police officers.  That is a good thing.  We also have a culture where violence has been demonized.

Now we need to not only teach how to judiciously use violence, but to introduce a generation to violence in the first place, and also teach them that it is natural and necessary.  That is a challenge.  One that can’t be accomplished with the 1960’s training model.

Where to start?  Here it would be easy to spout everyone should train in One on One Control Tactics or Chiron DT, or SPEAR or LOCKUP or [insert name here] but that is failed logic. 

If we are embracing outside the box revolutionary thinking we can’t just glam on to the next big training buzz word or fad.  We can’t switch systems every three years for the bigger better deal.  Truth is there is no superior system.  All have strengths and weakness, but there are only so many ways a body can be manipulated for the purposes of control.  The physical techniques no matter how you group them really haven’t changed over time.

We need to change from teaching a system like passing down a martial art to the next generation, to a tailored approach.  There are core skill sets every professional must have.  You just adjust how those skills are used so it's field applicable “just right” for the individual.

We are teaching the same things to the 6’02” 230lb Division One Defensive End as we are the 5’01’ 124 female who has never been in any type of physical altercation her entire life.

Big guy can easily control everybody in the room with a straight arm bar take down into cuffing.  Basic bread and butter defensive tactic found in all systems.


Here is Batman doing an arm bar take down

Big guy will be able to physically control people most of his career despite his training, not because of it.  Until he fads from his physical prime. Or he runs into someone bigger, stronger or just flat out committed to feeding him his liver (Then he may be in for a rude awakening)   

High 5’s good jobs, good grades.  He is rewarded for being able to do what the system teaches.  

Autosuggestion phrases - this system will work – backed by success in training gives him confidence in what he is learning.

Little gal works hard, can pull the technique against the other females in class.  She is as technically skilled as the big guy, but has trouble doing it to anyone else.

No high 5’s, at best good effort Sally.  She receives poor marks on her practical exams.

So what happens, her friends in class give her the technique.  She believes she can pull it in the field, when she has no actual competence in this area.  Or they don’t give it to her and she ingrains that she will lose anytime she has to go hands on with anyone.
Both are negative potentially catastrophic outcomes.

We can’t just teach her a system.  We have to teach her how to fight as the best her not a poor imitation of the big guy.

We need to teach her to work the system and how to adapt.

I said it is like big game hunting.  Everyone in this room is an experienced police officer and martial artist.  Yet none of us would box a lion.  We don’t fight lions we hunt them and use tactics and tools to safely put them down.  We don't high 5 a guy that got torn apart boxing a lion.  We generally think that guy is dumb. 

But we teach 5'01" women to try to take down division 1 defensive ends with a straight arm bar.  We high 5 them if they can do it and punish them if they can't instead of having them recognize that tactic is stupid for them and teaching them to transition to something that would work for them and giving them the skills to articulate that higher level of force.

This is the straight arm bar
This is what is for
This is what it feels like when it is working
This is what it feels like when it is not
If this ever feels like that (if it ever feels like work) switch to this.
In your case it might be transitioning to a weapon.
Practice that transition and articulating (Circumstances and Officer / Threat Factors) why you chose that force option.

That should get high fives!
If we are trying to get this generation to step up. We must instill ‘faith’
‘Faith’ being the willingness to do something you KNOW works.
For that to happen we have to teach them how to make things work for them, so that they have something their hind brain / lizard brain believes will work.

Then conversation then shifted to the “softness” of the generation of new recruits we are now instructing.

In the past certain assumptions were made.  Recruits had been in a fight before.  They know how to “scrap”.  It was part of growing up.

So you can start with a straight arm bar in training.  This is how cops go from scrapping into control / arresting.

That assumption no longer holds true.  These recruits have never been in a scrap.  They have never been in a contact sport.  Many have never been in any type of physical competition.  They played games where no score was kept so as not to hurt anyone’s self-esteem.  They all received participation trophies no matter how well or poorly they performed.

Now, when this generation comes across someone who doesn’t care about their feelings, who won’t do what they nicely ask them to do, or worse yet become confrontational when asked to do something – they freeze up like deer in head lights.

That raises the questions:
Do we need to teach “fighting” / “scrapping” first then add cop techniques?
How do we address the need for some type of sparring to administration?

How are we going to safely teach trainees what it is like to get hit?
How to hit?

In my opinion addressing these topics is one of the reasons Krav Maga has become so popular.  In its own way it starts with basic scraping, then specialization -Krav Maga for Law Enforcement for example.

I will attempt to answer those questions in my own way with a series of blogs this year.

I have an opportunity to teach Defensive Tactics Instructor School for a local University starting next year.  My goal is to have solid answers to those questions and the means not only to better this upcoming generation, but to teach others how to instruct them.

Prepare them for life’s ass kicks




Great conversation, good brainstorming and cool new professionals to play with.  That was a fun day.

A few weeks later I taught self-defense classes for a local high school.  That experience really drove home the need.  Just how important helping this generation …I guess the only way I can express this is “get their balls back” truly is.

Freshmen and sophomores mostly ranging in age from 15 – 18 years old.
Every class is supposed to start with a warm up / physical conditioning.  This consisted of 10 seconds of [insert exercise here].  Not how many say push ups can you do in 10 seconds but more like please do some push ups.

I would say that 80% of the class just laid on their stomachs and waited for the time to run out.  Same for sit ups, same for squats.

Then they had to run around a volley ball court for an entire 1 minute and 30 seconds.  I saw one kid shuffle three steps then clutch his side as if he just got done with a marathon.

WOW!
No self-pride, no discipline

After I was introduced, I asked them – Does anyone here know why physical education was introduced into American schools?
No response – silence
70 some odd years ago it was thought the youth of America had to be prepared for combat in WWII.
I fear if you guys were around then I’d be wearing lederhosen and speaking German today.

They didn’t get it.  They don’t study history.  Or they just didn’t think I was funny (everyone reading this knows I am hilarious)
A couple of days of self-defense with me can’t undo 15-18 years of the socialization that has created the problem in the first place.

I sincerely hope myself, and others in similar positions can come up with solutions to help this generation get their balls back.

And I don’t mean in some macho bullshit sexist way.  In this context woman have balls too.  Balls is being able to take care of your business.  What Chesty would call being hard, or a hard charger.  Taking pride in yourself and doing everything you can to be the best at everything you do.  My sister Kay has balls.  Lise has balls.  They are feminine ladies, and they kick ass.  Having balls has nothing to do with sex (plumbing) much less gender.  Having balls is natural.  Don’t believe me?  Try to approach a bear cub and see how Momma responds.  If you live through it please write how Momma bear doesn’t have balls or can’t take care of her business on the comments section.  Assuming you still have arms left so you can type.

Why is this so important?

Marc MacYoung and I have been talking about this a lot recently.  When I told him I was going to turn some of our conversations into a blog he sank the point home with this:

Think holocaust

The pussy-ification boils down to this. People can learn to stand up. But the longer it's gone on, the deeper it's embedded, the more other options are forgotten... the more people will die before the survivors remember how to stand up.

That's the spur, that's the warning

There is a reason why the IDF and Mossad are so bad ass.  They have to be, and they are constantly reminded of the consequences of not being able to stand up.
Never again!

Stay tuned to this blog this year for ways to address these concerns in a series – Reintroducing Physical Culture to America

Because…
“Our Country won’t go on forever, if we stay soft as we are now.  There won’t be any AMERICA because some foreign soldiery will invade us and take our women and breed a harder race!”
-Lt. Gen. Lewis B. “Chesty” Puller USMC

In the past training reinforced previous experience (scrapping, communicating). Training was changed for higher safety assuming that background still existed (recruits knew how to “handle their business”).
That background no longer exists.  Training has to change to reflect that.

America needs to get her balls back.

Train Hard, Train Smart, Be Safe…..Be HARD!

Thursday, December 5, 2013

Laugh it up Fuzz Ball




Laughing Monkey

I got into a stupid argument with my wife the other day. You'd think as a guy who teaches conflict communication I'd be better at using it.

The hows and whys of the argument aren't important, but after it happened I recognized that my monkey was doing the yelling and I allowed my self to become angry over nothing.

If you don't understand what I mean by monkey look at some older blogs in which I discuss conflict communications.

So I was replaying it in my mind trying to find when I got angry, and how I can recognize this quicker. Quick enough that I don't say something that is going to piss off my wife, thus triggering her monkey and prolonging an argument over nothing.

But that monkey is fast, faster than conscious thought. I say something back awfully fast.

I consider myself a funny guy and when I say stuff that pisses my wife (anyone really)off it is usually pretty funny.

That got me thinking, how come the monkey is funny?

How can it react with come backs so fast?
I want my physical / lizard reactions to be that fast


I never really thought about it, it is just something I can do. I couldn't always do it. There were times, just like anyone else that hours, even days later a come back or joke I wish I would have said in the heat of the moment came to me. So how did I get from there to where it happens fast enough to get me into trouble?


Is that a trained response?
Where does one get that training / experience?

Sibling rivalry / verbal combat training
Surviving as the youngest

I am the youngest of five children by quit a stretch of years. My closest sibling is 12 years older than I am, the oldest is 17 years older.

My siblings, for a long time were as much aunts and uncles as they were brothers and sisters.
Early on I got attention / acceptance in the group by getting a laugh.

Verbally "sparring" with my brother
No mean intent, but plenty of experience.

When I was in Jr High my brother returned from the Air Force and was going to school. He lived at home. This was really the first time I can remember living with any of my siblings as they all moved out before I was even in first grade ( I was about 6 or 7 )

So now I had a brother. We rough housed just like any brothers do, but he was in his mid twenties and I was like 12. There was never any sibling rivalry there, too far apart to be jockeying for dominance. Physically anyway. We never had any knock down drag em outs, nor did we ever really not get along. But we would (good naturedly) tear on each other, and the rest of the family all the time.

This was the verbal equivalent of sparring. Small doses of verbal confrontation in a controlled / safe setting that can prepare you for actual confrontation.

Everyone has been in a confrontation / argument and hours later you think of the best come back. One that would have been soooooo cool, if only you had said it at the time?

Usually that realization comes after the emotions have subsided and the human brain can process the information.

Diminished capacity caused by the conflict all the human could come up with was something like, your face is a butt.

That is why action movie tough guy one liners are so satisfying. I wish I could do that. I wish I would have said that.

But, the more times that happens , the easier it is to remember those tag lines. And if you have a brother to use them on, to spar with, the easier they become to use.

So how does the monkey get funny. How can you use human brain humor when you are emotionally charged

Less emotional = cool under pressure = easier access to information
Confidence in physical skills allows you to stay calmer. Deep breath, oxygenize the neo cortex. Human can access verbal skills, capacity is less diminished. Helps preclude the need for physical skills

Emotions are contagious. A self depreciating joke can break the tension and offer all a face saving alternative to physical violence. A human level win. Words cost nothing.


Humor as a weapon

"Verbally assaultive" behavior
Just as you can physically assault a buddy with no malice intentions, such as a slug on the arm, you can verbally assault a buddy, also with no malice intent - Ball busting

The reverse is true as well every physically violent manifestation of social violence (different types of monkey dances) can also be seen manifesting through verbally assaultive behavior. Words / humor as weapons.

Language via words is relatively new anthropologically speaking. Humans have been communicating with each other long before words. Body language is trusted over mouth sounds.

Language is the purview of the human brain (neo cortex)
So how come the monkey is funny?

Clearly there is physical humor
Three stooges
Chevy Chase falling down a flight of stairs
Farts are always funny
Some one getting kicked in the nuts is always funny

So, how come the monkey can use words so fast it gets me in trouble?
Has the human learned to work with the monkey in these instances?

Remember the monkey, lizard, human is just a model to help express certain ideas / concepts. It isn't "truth"

The monkey can use words just fine. The tricky part of the monkey is that it acts so fast you think you are in your human mind and behaving rationally.

Trick of the trade if you can feel the physical effects of emotion, you are not being rational. So learn what that feels like and practice getting out of it.

How do you get out of it?
 Similar to breaking a freeze - breathe. Inhale deeply, oxygenate your brain give the neo cortex fuel. That is one thing that effects the world. Follow that up with something else that effects the world. Move, talk, something. Something along the lines of sorry about that I let myself get mad, and there is really no reason to be getting mad right now, how do we fix this.

That has worked for me on occasions I was able to feel / recognize the emotion in time before I escalated things (usually with my mouth).

How come the monkey is funny? Is humor saved in the mid brain? Humor is an emotion. Sense (feeling) of humor. What emotion/s are you experiencing when you laugh:
Joy?
Elation?
Happiness?

Release of chemicals and firing of synapses - we tag the the sensation with an emotional label afterword

Have you ever laughed when you weren't experiencing an emotion?

Laughter is tied to emotions, so it stands to reason that the monkey would be calling the shots when you are experiencing these emotions.

Remember in this model the Monkey is the part of the brain that deals with social interaction. Establishing and maintaining a place in that group.
The Monkey does not distinguish between humiliation and death. In the past if you were ostracized from the group that was very likely a death sentence. The Monkey does what it perceives is needed to prevent that.

With that in mind it makes sense that the monkey can use humor:
As bonding
As a tool to cement a place in the group
As a means to establish a "pecking order"
To put others down - a form of social violence

Lets re-examine social violence (the different monkey dances) through the spectrum of humor / verbal aggression.

Monkey Dance
Group Monkey Dance
Educational Beat Down
Status Seeking Show

Classic monkey dance from my youth - last day of high school

Monkey Dance - Ritualised jockeying for position with in a group

The physically violent version of this usually follows this pattern:

Hard Stare
Verbal response - What are you looking at?
Retort - Something clever like fuck you
Words have failed
Poke
Push
Shove
Overhand right

That is the ritual, but it doesn't always go all the way through.

The dance can end at the retort if your monkey is good at "verbal assault". If you can use humor as a weapon.

In retrospect I have "won"several monkey dances because my monkey is funny and it shut things down before it got physical.

Last day of high school, a kid and his buddy from the rival school across town drove into our parking lot where a group of my buddies were hanging out. This kid used to go to our school and he was on the wrestling team with me, so I went over to his car to talk to him. I'm not sure if he came over specially to start a fight with me or if things just ended up there but eventually the conversation turned to something along the lines of -
Him - So I hear you think you are a better wrestler than me
(Side note when we were at the same school I beat him in practice all the time)
Me-Yeah, yeah I do
Him - Hard stare (see where this is going)
Him - You want some,...Pussy (In case it is hard to follow the context, he was asking if I wanted to fight, then he called me a pussy)
Me - (with out missing a beat) Jerry, If I wanted some pussy I'd still be at your mom's house.

I though, oh shit here we go I'm in a fight now. Instead he just sat there for a moment and stared at me then he spun out his tires and sped out of the parking lot.

I got a bunch of high fives from my buddies for burning him so bad and I went about enjoying the rest of my last day of high school.

My status in the group was raised by making Jerry back down.
I just happen to be able to do that with humor. Because my monkey was funny.

Humor achieved everything a monkey dance does.

Did my humor really shut Jerry down? I found out years latter he came back with two car loads of guys looking for me again, but by that time I was already on the lake fishing.

This might be a very different story had the timing been different.

I guess I'll never know if he just felt out numbered and went for reinforcements

Or if getting punked by jokes left an unfinished script that kept bugging him until he had to do something about it .


Group Monkey Dance (GMD)

The group monkey dance is a show of group solidarity.

With physical violence it can manifest as-
An outsider is discouraged from interfering with group business – a way of establishing territory. A domestic violence victim turning against the responding Officer

The victim is an insider who has betrayed the group. It becomes a contest to show your loyalty to the group by how much damage you can inflict on the victim.

Verbal Group Monkey Dances can manifest as

Scape goat
Bonding by ball busting
Shared Joke - knowing the inside joke means you are a member of this group (random blow job midget)

All the different crews that came to tow for the Violence Dynamics Seminar all had their own goat.

We all love our goat, but we all bond as a group by teasing / blaming the goat for no reason.

The Goat puts up with it because it shows he / she is part of the group.

Hazing as ritual
The Goat puts up with it and as the group continues to exist new members are brought in and someone else can be the goat.
Pass on to next generation continues the survival of the group

No one else picks on our goat.

Can the new guy handle it?
If he can't he will lose his shit in the street.
If you cry during your Filed Training how the hell will you ever handle the real stress of being a Police Officer?
If mean words make you quit how will you ever make it as a professional athlete?

High end skill selection process removes most hazing. If you can pass the entry testing, you can handle it, but ball busting occurs as bonding.

Case in point grouping up on me.

I don't want to give anything away but there was a bar room brawl exercise we were doing in training. The team did not bother with the objective of the drill but took the opportunity to have a 20 on 1 fight and kick the crap out of me.

It was fun and it was funny and it was payback for all the times I knelt on their heads in training. Bonding, we are all tighter for it.



Educational Beat Down
Reinforces the rules of the group

Physical violence examples include
A thwak to the head like the Three Stooges, or Mark Harmon on NCIS. A spanking between adults if you will.

The verbal equivalent of an Educational Beat Down include

Shaming
Demoted to van driver
Tactical bra

Again it is not my place to divulge the details of these stories so I will make my points as vaguely as I can as I refer to stories.

A story from another Operator. His team had a guy that was letting himself go. Not meeting the physical fitness requirements of that team. If your life may depend on the fitness level of your teammates then this becomes an issue for everyone. The team retro-engendered an entry vest into a tactical bra that could accommodate the guys freshly spawned "bitch tits" (see also man boobs, or the fat that collects in the chest of fat guys).

Humor was used as an educational beat down. Your behavior is unacceptable. You are going to be shamed in front of the group to teach you a lesson, and to show others what happens when the rules written or otherwise are violated.

In both cases the educated got the point of the beat down and modified their behavior.

Status Seeking Show

In a marginal society like criminal subculture it is better to be feared than loved. A reputation for violence is a valuable thing. So how do you safely earn this reputation? By beating up your allies? Not conducive to having guys watch your back. You could fight rivals. But those rivals have friends watching their back and it could easily escalate beyond what you are prepared for. So that leaves an outsider but not an enemy. Someone by themselves or at least with no large male companions. A relatively easy mark. A SSS will violate almost all the rules of normal social violence. That is the point. Look how crazy I am did you see what I just did? Better not fuck with me. A SSS doesn’t need to follow the steps of the monkey dance nor limit damage either. A savage beating, knifing, or killing serves the purpose of seeking status by showing how crazy you are.

The verbal equivalent of a SSS

Class Clown

I've got myself into trouble with this, with a former Chief of mine.
I never saw humor as a weapon until I wrote this.
Now I can see how / why he with reacted the way they did.
I spanked his monkey. Let me clarify that.
No violation of policy, but my jokes (verbal assault)felt like an attack.

Just as with an educational beat down children don't spank their parents, subordinates don't tease / embarrass their superiors. Especially in front of others.

Not anything he could really do.  He was not going to out joke me, nothing to gain by going physical, and who would want to fight me?

I didn't break an "official rule" but there is an unfinished script. An unfinished script causes uneasy feelings and compels the need to finish it.

Come on in shut the door please - that phrase is never followed by a fun conversation.

My perception - ball busting / bonding
Their perception - verbal assault

What I have learned the hard way. What I perceived as a compliment, one meat eater accepting another into a group by talking to them like they are still a meat eater, even though they are no longer operational doesn't work. It comes off as disrespectful.

Treating non operational administrators as just that, admin - shows respect, even though if I were in their shoes I would still want to be part of the ball busting.

The perception of the person receiving the message is what is important here. 

Let them set the tone, in fact the less you talk all the better.

Naturally gifted athletes and martial artists make the worst coaches / instructors because they never had to learn it, they could always just do it.

Telling someone to just do it doesn't teach them jack. The best teachers are technicians that had to find a way to teach themselves to compete against the naturally gifted and have a means of transmitting what they learned to others.

What can I learn from how I gained those skills, and how can that be applied to other aspects of human communication and conflict?

Summary

Emotions are contagious. If you are dealing with someone who is pissed off it is easy to become angry too. Even over very trivial matters. The key is to recognize the physical symptoms / manifestations of emotion and realize that anything you say in an emotionally charged state will not be productive.

When you experience the physical sensations of emotion Inhale deeply, oxygenate your brain give the neo cortex fuel. That is one thing that effects the world. Follow that up with something else that effects the world. Move talk something. Something along the lines of sorry about that I let myself get mad, and there is really no reason to be getting mad right now, how do we fix this.


Have you ever experienced or witnessed someone smoking to chill out after something happened. It works, but nicotine is a stimulant, how does it calm you down? I offer the theory that the tobacco really has nothing do to with it. However the ritual of smoking, or more to the point of the rhythmic breathing associated with smoking is similar to that used by martial artists and shooters to stay calm and concentrate.

What can we extrapolate to physical conflict?

Training and experience.
You are only as good as your training buddies. Having someone I joked with all the time made me better at joking with people.

Sparring with my brother was not the same as backing Jerry down with Jokes, but the regular "training" with my brother made dealing with Jerry less scary and allowed me to access skills before capacity diminished under adrenalization.

Having good people that push you under safe conditions is not the same as physical confrontation but that hard training provides stress inoculation which allows one to access skills before capacity diminished under adrenalization.

Also the more actual experience with conflict the longer the negative effects of adrenalization can be pushed back. The conflict is less scary because you have been there before, this isn't your first rodeo.

With that experience you can bring more accurate context and feeling back into your training

Lastly so this blog is useful to others, and not just a mind dump for me what else can the readers take away?

In writing this blog, a lesson finally sinked in for me.  Simply stated it is harder to get yourself in trouble with your mouth shut.




Train hard, Train smart, Stay Safe

Sunday, October 13, 2013

Stepping up / My own voice



11 Days in October. 

Just wrapped up Violence Dynamics 2014.  After 11 days of hard work it has been a challenge transitioning back to “normal” life.  So much going through my head.  So many aches and pains healing up.

The seminar was great.  I am blessed that I had an opportunity to have so many of the teachers that have influenced me all in the same place at the same time.  My Aikido Sensei was there for a day, my Judo Sensei was there for a day, and for all 11 days I had Steve Jimerfield Rory Miller and Marc MacYoung to play with.

One day I even got the SWAT team there.  I had a very Zen moment of lots of my favorite people doing some of my favorite things.  Great week, but that week is over time to forge on. 

For an in depth review of what we did check out Rory Miller’s blog.  


It doesn't make any sense for me to rewrite what he has already written.

And that is kind of the point.

My biggest take away from this seminar personally, was the reoccurring theme of “my own voice”.
As awesome as those guys are, the world doesn't need more pale imitations of them.

Any time I take on someone as a mentor my personal challenge to myself is to surpass them.  Take what they have to teach, make it my own and change it into something better.

I now understand that better is not enough.  I have to embrace making it my own and not only make it better but make it different.

Express my own voice.

The world doesn't need pale imitations, but I fell the world could benefit from the one and only me.

Ha can be translated from Japanese as style, or particular to.  Especially when used after a family name.  Keckeisenha Jujutsu for example would be the style of Jujutsu done by, taught to the Keckeisen family.  It may differ from what is taught to others because you keep the really good stuff to your immediate family.  It is your particular flavor.

So it is time for me to step up.  No longer managing the “talent”, but to embrace being the talent.  Also to embrace doing things my own way the Keckeisenha.

Just as Batman by 40 is as much a brain dump and a way to keep myself accountable to my goals, for the most part so is this blog post (I hope readers may get something out of it as well)

But Batman by 40 has served me well and yielded results

Here are some before and after pics







I set goals, developed an action plan to meet those goals then stuck to the plan (Batman never gives up)

So here and now I launch the Minnesota Martial Art Mafia project.  




As I am writing this I became nervous.  Should I really be sharing this?  Should I really call it that?  Nervous?, fuck that I routinely kick in the doors of armed dangerous felons, I won’t be afraid sharing my feelings, my personal goals publicly.  But mafia?, why call it that you might ask.  

Without coming off more overly arrogant (more so than I usually do anyway) I am too good at what I do not to have my own voice, not to be known. 


I'm the best there is at what I do, and what I do isn't very nice business

There are folks out there that couldn't carry my jock that sell out training venues for seminars any given weekend of the year. 

I call it mafia because I’m coming into their territory and I'm going to take it over.  They can benefit from working with me or be crushed


Nevertheless, I'm taking over. You can either profit by this... or be destroyed!


There are plenty of talented instructors teaching 3-10 people out of a church basement or a YMCA.  I will not be that cliché.  It is easy to romanticize those guys as pure.  And to villainize less talented Instructors that run financially successful schools as sell outs.  Fuck that! Time to pick it up a notch. 

It has always been important to me to get good information out to the people who will use it to protect others.  That is the mission first and foremost.

However, that information does no one any good if no one gets it.  If no one gets the information, it doesn't get applied in the field. 

The information I can uniquely provide hasn't gotten very far by me giving it away for free.  Nor have many of my bills been paid. 

That does not make me stoic.  That does not make me honorable.  That means I’m failing at getting the information out.  Batman doesn't fail!



Batman becomes who he needs to be to get the job done.  If I’m not getting the information out I can’t afford to be disdainful of business men.  I am not above them.  We do not live in a caste system that separates warriors and merchants.  I will steal every solid business practice that allows me to get the message out. 

I will be Batman by 40 I got that down.  I also need to become Bruce Wayne and kick ass on that side of things as well.  Hell even Luthor if it gets the job done

So here it is I’m dropping the gauntlet. 

Operation Minnesota Martial Art Mafia - Short term Goals [1-3 months]

Finish the book.
·        You have heard me talking about this thing for three years.  Want to read it?  No one can until I finish it.  Time to nut up and get it done

Have useful functioning website for the school
Create and advertise training schedule for 2014

-Intermediate goals [3-6 months]
15 new students
1 seminar per month with 30 students
Establish play group cells / branch Dojos
Sell book to publisher

By Jan 2014
30 regular full time students
Sell out all available training slots for Violence Dynamics.  Be forced to seek new training venue to handle more participants
Hand my father a published copy of the book.

Now it is out there, I better hustle to make it happen.

It felt good writing this.  Thank you for reading it.  Although this was for me, I hope you took something from it too.
As a reward for reading it the whole way through here is the song that will be going through my head as I stay motivated to meet the above stated goals.



PS everyone still reading this that has thought about coming to Minnesota to train with me or inviting me to your school for a seminar better book now while you can still afford me.